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Door 4 · The kit

First 30 Days Ready Kit

$39 one-time. No subscription, no account, no expiry date on the file — download it and it is yours.

Get the First 30 Days Ready Kit — $39

What is inside — the full list

  • First-30-Days Protocol — all three posture tracks (Thinking / I Filed / I Was Served), each a day-by-day checklist with the why in one line per step.
  • Temporary Orders Worksheet — what temporary orders decide (home, kids' schedule, temporary support, bills), the status-quo map of his current arrangement, and a fill-in proposal sheet to take to an attorney / mediation.
  • Move-Out Decision Sheet — the before-you-pack checklist: legal, money, and kids consequences of leaving, staying, or being ordered out; and, if he has already moved out, the document-and-return-steps page. (Safety exception printed on the sheet itself.)
  • Financial Disclosure Starter Pack — a Schedule-style inventory workbook (every account, debt, income source, policy, retirement balance — community / separate columns), the document pull list (tax years, pay, statements), and a disclosure-deadline calendar page for his state card.
  • First-30-Days Money Traps Card Set — joint accounts, new debt, beneficiary / insurance freezes, extraordinary spending, undocumented bill-paying: what not to move, what to document, and how to legitimately separate post-separation earnings — written against the ATRO / dissipation mechanics in §2.2.
  • Custody–Support Bridge Worksheet — overnight counter (current vs proposed, per year), his state's mechanic type (§2.4) in plain words, and the filled-in handoff page for Door 1's calculator and Door 3's log. (Bridge only — no support calculation inside this kit.)
  • Attorney First-Meeting Pack — agenda, question list, document folder checklist, and the manage-the-meeting page (what to ask, what to bring, how billable hours get burned and how not to) — the incumbent-validated skill (§1.1), as paper instead of video.
  • Communication Templates — short, calm, written-response templates for the recurring first-30-days messages (schedule changes, money requests, "leave the house" demands, kids' logistics), each with a do-not-send list.
  • 14-Day Documentation Starter Log — parenting, communication, and expense logs, dated and exhibit-safe — explicitly the front end of Door 3's system (§2.5), with the handoff page.

Nothing on this list is a summary or a sample. Each item is the finished artifact, ready to fill in and use.

Printed on the sales page because it is true of the kit: it contains no support calculations (Door 1), no ongoing custody documentation system (Door 3), no retirement-division planning, no state forms, and no how-divorce-works teaching — those are free elsewhere or live in their own doors, and the kit says where.

Each part, in the kit

First-30-Days Protocol

Included in the $39 First 30 Days Ready Kit

Temporary Orders Worksheet

Included in the $39 First 30 Days Ready Kit

Move-Out Decision Sheet

Included in the $39 First 30 Days Ready Kit

Financial Disclosure Starter Pack

Included in the $39 First 30 Days Ready Kit

First-30-Days Money Traps Card Set

Included in the $39 First 30 Days Ready Kit

Custody–Support Bridge Worksheet

Included in the $39 First 30 Days Ready Kit

Attorney First-Meeting Pack

Included in the $39 First 30 Days Ready Kit

Communication Templates

Included in the $39 First 30 Days Ready Kit

14-Day Documentation Starter Log

Included in the $39 First 30 Days Ready Kit

Get the First 30 Days Ready Kit — $39